[metrics] Add scanner poll-timing metrics for consumer liveness observability

[charlesdong1991]

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Description

Java expose consumer-side liveness and processing-efficiency metrics, so we can tell whether a scanner is starved or wether consumer's downstream processing is bottleneck.

This issue aims to adding poll timing guages.

Willingness to contribute

• I'm willing to submit a PR!